What is for me won’t pass me by. A few days now because I was really not feeling 100% I was needy, in need of human touch and just love in the form of a hug, I was completely out of character, and of course followed through with action and behaviour that caused...
I owe it to myself to heal and become whole, to allow God full access to all of me so that He can do His finished work, I will no longer look back. I will accept that people do as they see fit, and it’s my responsibility to ensure I enforce boundaries that serve...
Rejection or the fear of rejection will have you compromise your standards and principles just to be accepted… For years I was afraid of “What would people think?” the very thought of doing something that is true to you and makes you come alive but...
For years I have had to fight for my voice, I stood infront of someone and shouted that I need love, I had to shout and say I also deserve care, support encouragement, motivation, empathy and understanding… So many times I have had to pick myself up from a dark...
What a season I have been in! Over the years I met people and I tend to be the one who overcompensates, it is I who will be texting first and checking up on etc. But this season, I decided “wait a minute Zen, take a step back and see if they will come towards you”,...
Lately I have been on this journey of just protecting my peace. I won’t even react to things that used to mess me up. It’s quite hard work to switch off from default settings. On a daily basis I used to say what I wanted to say to prove a point, but these days I...
