Walk Away

Walk Away

I am an optimist, and I will give chances upon chances and allow room for change when. The same behavioural patterns continue to occur, but I tend to lose my ability to trust people in their word.      Walking away has never been my strong suit because I...
Growth

Growth

How do you measure growth? I have been so hard on myself for as long as I can remember that God always gets me to STOP! Stop to pause and reflect. I have learned to do this on a regular basis just to keep myself in check, and it actually allows me to be more present...
Pay Attention

Pay Attention

Death has a way of making you stand still and evaluate your life.  That’s what happened to me this past week as I received the news of a dear friend of mine’s passing. I was crushed. It felt like this week I was existing, but the passing of my friend had...
How much do you value yourself?

How much do you value yourself?

For years, I kept communication lines open with my exes, never really understanding the gravity of that decision. Some of them thought, “Oh, I will always have access to her,” and some were quite entitled, demanding space in my life even though their time...
Choose Peace

Choose Peace

“It’s in the moments of decision that your destiny gets shaped.”- Tony Robbins  So often, we fail to move away from things and places for fear of losing people. We stay longer in relationships/friendships, and the things we lose are ourselves and,...
Holding space for someone

Holding space for someone

When two worlds collide, it’s like nothing can stop these worlds from entwining, and somehow, as time goes by, you want this to stop, but you actually can’t, for it has only just begun…   For a while now, I have been thinking about the idea of...