Inner Peace

Motivation

Time to re-align

Time to re-align

What is for me won't pass me by. A few days now because I was really not feeling 100% I was needy, in need of human touch and just love in the form of a hug, I was completely out of character, and...

I owe it to myself

I owe it to myself

I owe it to myself to heal and become whole, to allow God full access to all of me so that He can do His finished work, I will no longer look back. I will accept that people do as they see fit, and...

Rejection

Rejection

Rejection or the fear of rejection will have you compromise your standards and principles just to be accepted...   For years I was afraid of "What would people think?" the very thought of doing...

Time to get out of my way

Time to get out of my way

For years I have had to fight for my voice, I stood infront of someone and shouted that I need love, I had to shout and say I also deserve care, support encouragement, motivation, empathy and...

Choosing people who choose you

Choosing people who choose you

What a season I have been in! Over the years I met people and I tend to be the one who overcompensates, it is I who will be texting first and checking up on etc. But this season, I decided “wait a...

Protecting my peace

Protecting my peace

Lately I have been on this journey of just protecting my peace. I won't even react to things that used to mess me up. It’s quite hard work to switch off from default settings. On a daily basis I...

Misplacing

Misplacing

The dictionary meaning of this word is “positioning incorrectly”. Have you ever been put in a place wrongly, like you have been made out to be someone or portray something that you thought was...

Closing Doors

Closing Doors

Closing doors ain't easy but often it is a necessity, we allow people in our lives and we also have a responsibility to ourselves to maintain healthy boundaries and relationships. When you are used...

Misplacing

Misplacing

The dictionary meaning of this word is “positioning incorrectly”. Have you ever been put in a place wrongly, like you have been made out to be someone or portray something that you thought was...

Self Sabotage

Self Sabotage

Ever been in a space where you have been so used to a certain kind of thing and never really experienced anything else. For example,  you have been so used to dysfunction that, that is all you know...

Letting go

Letting go

I have been on this journey of letting go for the past couple of months and if I think about it, it could have been sooner that I shut a certain door. But it was important for me to get to a place...

My Journey to wholeness

My Journey to wholeness

For years I felt responsible for others behaviors, or felt a certain kind of way when they behave a certain way towards me and I most often than not adjusted, but this behavior of mine was fueled by...

Acceptence

Acceptence

We often want people to accept us as we are but when it comes to accepting others as they are, we tend to be somewhat critical. A few weeks ago while having a conversation with God, God instructed...

Shift your focus

Shift your focus

What you focus on you magnify. The question is, what have you been focusing on these last couple of days, weeks, months? I realized that I have been so focused on things that were not working for...

Love

Love

Don't say 'I love you' with the wrong intentions... The word love gets thrown around like it's a means to an end...Many forget that Love is an action word, when you tell someone you love them, it...

Being Vulnerable

Being Vulnerable

Every time I allowed a man into my vulnerable space, I got hurt. Over the years, this made me not trust any man. In my eyes, they were just after what they could get from me. Every time I allowed...

Rejection

Rejection

Rejection... “the action of spurning a person's affections”. Also, “dismissing an idea or person”. For years I have been walking around with this wound of rejection that has gotten me into sticky...

(I AM) Toxic

(I AM) Toxic

One of the hardest lessons is to admit and acknowledge that you (I am) toxic.  Remnants of my past still lurk within me and projecting past behaviours based on triggers affect new found...

Consistency

Consistency

This word has been in my face for a while and I had recently become acquainted with someone.  One of the things about them that really grabbed me was inconsistent effort. Consistent behaviour I saw...

Despite what I know

Despite what I know

I recently found out delicate information that would and could change the dynamics of a relationship dear to my heart; however, God has called me to a higher degree of understanding... You have...