Written by Candice Strauss

motherhood | family

2 Comments(s)

7 Feb, 2022

Before a person is able to practice self-love, we need to understand what it means.

Self-love is a state of appreciation for yourself that grows from actions that support your physical, psychological and spiritual growth. 

Self-love means having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness. Self-love means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others. Self-love means not settling for less than you deserve.

Self-love can mean something different for every person because we all have many different ways to take care of ourselves. Figuring out what self-love looks like for you is an important part of your mental health.

What does self-love mean to you?

For starters, it can mean:

  • Talking to and about yourself with love and kindness
  • Prioritising yourself
  • Giving yourself a break from self-judgement
  • Trusting yourself
  • Being true to yourself
  • Being nice to yourself
  • Setting healthy boundaries
  • Forgiving yourself when you aren’t being true or nice to yourself

For many people, self-love is another way to say self-care. To practice self-care, we often need to go back to the basics and

  • Listen to our bodies
  • Take breaks from work and move/stretch.
  • Put the phone down and connect to yourself or others, or do something creative.
  • Eating healthy foods, but sometimes indulging in your favourite foods.

Self-love means accepting yourself as you are for everything that you are, in this moment. It means accepting your emotions for what they are and putting your physical, emotional and mental well-being first.

So now we know that self-love motivates you to make healthy choices in life. When you hold yourself in high esteem, you’re more likely to choose things that nurture your well-being and serve you well.

Ways to practice self-love include:

  • Being mindful. People who have more self-love tend to know what they think, feel, and want.
  • Taking actions based on need rather than want. By staying focused on what you need, you turn away from automatic behaviour patterns that get you into trouble, keep you stuck in the past, and lessen self-love.
  • Practicing good self-care. You will love yourself more when you take better care of your basic needs. People high in self-love nourish themselves daily through healthy activities, like sound nutrition, exercise, proper sleep, intimacy and healthy social interactions.
  • Making room for healthy habits. Start truly caring for yourself by mirroring that in what you eat, how you exercise, and what you spend time doing. Do stuff, not to “get it done” or because you “have to,” but because you care about yourself.

Finally, to practice self-love, start by being kind, patient, gentle and compassionate to yourself, the way you would with someone else that you care about.

Candice Strauss

2 Comments

  1. Jennifer

    Very good article…i loved reading it. 🤗
    I often run around making sure that my kids, hubby and the household are all sorted…but totally forget about myself in the process…
    Thanks for reminding me again about self love 💗

    Reply
    • Candice Strauss

      Hi Jennifer

      You are welcome .. glad to hear that you enjoyed reading the article ❤️
      Yep.. always make time for yourself xx

      Reply

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